Oh, gads. I'm sorry for your loss. But take some advice from an old lady with 2 kids and a 30-year marriage, OK? Don't be in a big hurry to start a family. Kids take more time, effort and money than most people ever imagine; just being married is a lot of work. You cannot blame your miscarriage on your family/friends; that is just crazy making! Seriously, you can't do that, it's not fair and it's not true, If stress alone could cause a miscarriage, there wouldn't be any single mothers, and the few kids that do get born would never have siblings. Parenthood is one loooooong stress train, it doesn't even stop when they grow up and move out (you just have to do your worrying long distance, and wonder what they aren't telling you). I know young people hate to be reminded of it, but you are very young; you and hubby-to-be should take some time to build a strong foundation together before adding the stress of a baby into the mix.