Me, I guess, although if it means I won't be harassed every time I go out in the chicken yard, I'm good with that.

I have plenty of hens that beg to be held, anyway. I don't need to coddle a rooster for the same effect.
I agree
completely that Cochin boys must be the best roosters ever. I read about another Cochin boy who unfortunately died of Marek's disease, but he was such a wonderful guy that he inspired me to try raising roosters again after everything I had experienced with them, and that's how I ended up with my Cochin boy, Po. I read everything I could after ordering him, and a large amount of things I read said, bottom line, roosters are not pets and should not be treated as such. There are so many people saying this whose points of view I respect so much, and my experience has agreed with their statements. And some of them, even though they didn't handle their boys more than they absolutely had to as chicks, ended up with perfectly docile roosters that could be handled without issue as adults anyway! I also do walk through him rather than around him, and I knock him off the girls when he mounts them in my presence, though he just doesn't do that anymore so I must have done something right.
I guess what I'm stuck on is that everything you keep saying about holding them to make them submissive backfired on me with
every boy I tried it with. Why would I want to go through that effort if it doesn't work reliably? I suppose I could have been exceptionally unlucky and gotten a whole lot of boys whose personality types simply wouldn't allow for them to be raised this way, but then that doesn't explain why Po has done so well when using the no-handling method. Po is respectful, calm, gentle, and even though I can't handle him a whole lot except for after dark, I don't have to fear him. And in the end, that is what was most important to me when I decided to put a rooster into my flock.
Sorry if I sound like I'm trying to be argumentative, because I really am not. I just want to make sure that my point of view on the topic is out there and not just being brushed off (which was... kind of how it seemed there). I've never written anything here on BYC with the intent of
purposefully insulting someone and I definitely don't plan to. I like you guys too much.