I would imagine your soft water is fine, but you could always look for a spigot on you well that is before your water softener. I have 2 of those, one by the pressure tank, and one garden hose. Worth a try I suppose and its free.
I have had one flock that refused to eat Oyster Shell, and it was probably my fault for waiting until well after they were laying to introduce it. In my defense, it was my first flock of chickens and I was unaware they were laying yet as they had a secret spot where they all decided to lay there eggs. 
Since your chickens natural calcium deposits are now depleted, I would switch to Layer ration asap, AND continue to push the Oyster Shell. Once their systems are back to normal and they are laying hard shelled, normal looking eggs, then you can switch back to all flock or whatever. 
Keep an eye on them though, that first flock never did figure out what the oyster shell was for. For that flock I never was able to feed them anything other than layer. Oh and be sure to clean of the soft eggs asap. You don't want your chickens figuring out what tasty things eggs are. That flock was very bad about eating their eggs before you could get out to pick them up.