Has anyone else discovered who your true friends are after you get married or is it just me? Is it an age thing? A maturity thing? I'm not sure. I have noticed a friend of mine and someone who is supposed to be my best friend isn't so friendly anymore. I talked to Debi about it yesterday and I'm feeling much better now but I'm just wondering if I am there are others out there who have maybe "grown up" before our friends. It is kid o sad to me, not saying I'm better than my "friend" by any means. I ended up getting into an argument with my so called friend because he lied to me about going to see a movie with me but went with the friend of hers that has been tryin to replace me. I know she went with the other friend because she wanted to drink before the movie and I don't drink anymore. She didnt even like the series ofthe movie in question till I introduced it to her last year. So I confronted her about it and of course she lied. She made up lame excuses as she always does because this is not the first time she has lied to me about something and I'm sick of it. So I'm taking Debi's advice and moving on. This friend wasn't even happy for me when I told her I got married. She was mad she didn't get to go shopping with me or be in my wedding. I eloped. I went to Vegas. I got married in a tank top, mini blue jeans skirt, an flip flops lol. I'm just mad at the fact that she lied. She could have told me the truth. I don't like being lied to.