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See? If you leave this world while still young, you never learn to slow down and appreciate the birds and the smell of fresh coffee. As for becoming helpless, well, I think that is the Lord's way of making us not so sorry to go when it's time, and of making it easier on those who love us to let us go. It is all that way for a reason..... My Dad, now 93, was strong, vibrant, and capable when he was younger. Now, his knees won't hold him long, his eyes show him only blurs and shadows, and his hearing is almost gone. He can't enjoy gardening, reading the paper, or playing golf. His only pleasure is in his family. We are the world to him but sometimes, when I visit, he doesn't recognize me. He's ready to go. I'm ready to let him go. I hate to see him like this and I know he hates it more. I will be sad when he's gone, but the longer he stays, the less happy he will be. That is what will take the sting out of losing him when that time comes.
Agreed...but if he could have kept those faculties...ah that is the rub, eh!

I also see people around me going...eventually the people you all knew are gone...family, friends. You are alone in some ways too...alone when you once had colleagues that remember the jokes and you can't tell them those ones again...unless their long term memory gives out...then you can say the same one everyday until you lose your own memory!
Words, I heard that we start to forget words as we get old...it kills me but you are talking along and then pause...because you forgot the word THE...it is going to be that bad, eh.

Another aspect...the ways you learned to deal with disappear. At a 100, there was horseless carriages to replace the horses...the technology, even I don't bother to keep up...if a kid loses something on my bus, I just hold it up and say, "Who's?" and avoid identifying whatever it is and looking dumb.
Technology and the world just bull you over. I remember going to a grocery store I had not been to in 15 years and standing with my coin for the cart thinking...where the heck does this go and how much is it that they want? I durn near turned no my heel and thought "BUGGER IT!" I felt old...really old because it was frustrating because I know I am not dumb...just a tad tired that things I thought I knew aren't now. Grrrr...
The ads kill Rick and I...rude...selfish, feeding their sense of entitlement...feeding what they want...cars with WIFI...oh yes, mandatory to text whilst driving and they can't chew gum and walk at the best of times. We need cars that drive themselves so something can be paying attention because the drivers think they are multi tasking when they are not. That sounds WAY older than my years eh...ranting...like old people do!

Yes, the world beats you up, it takes away your senses and I do agree, gets you ready to go. Wherever that going is to be. We oldsters get left behind as the world spins faster and I tend to agree, we accept we will have to step off it sometime and I suppose it is nice to leap off by your choice....because we do feel like we don't belong here any more...sigh.