First of all, beautiful daughter!Looks like you did really well on the sleeping baggie. It's adorbs!![]()
Good for you that you guys were able to see the potential in a house that had good bones and new things where it counts! I know exactly what you mean about people coming over and acting kind of stuck up about the place. I've learned to accept that people just don't think like us frugal people can, and many times, I decide to opt out of friendships because they just don't understand it at all (Oh well, it's cheaper to not have as many friends). What I love about living out in the country in a house that is bare bones, is that you can do pretty much whatever you want to it. I love doing our own drywall and flooring projects. A few years ago, we saved a lot of money by investing in a metal roof and putting it on by ourselves. I'm not sure how old your house is, but our's was built in the 1940's and most likely started out as a one room house/shed. Over the years, the house was added on to, and I swear that some of the rooms aren't square/straight, but I love it and wouldn't trade it in for the world. Not only because I get to do what I want to it, but because the mortgage is cheap and the house has a lot of character that new houses just don't have.
And to add to the living frugal list, we heat the house with wood. We have been very fortunate that this winter's supply of wood was given to us for free, all we had to do was haul it out of the mountains. It only took us two trips and doing the loading and unloading. Totally worth it though!
Thank you! And while our home wasn't built in the 40's like yours, you described our home to a T. The original part of our home is a tiny two story built right around 1900, guessing by the beamwork and saw edges that you can see in the basement. A real estate company owned this place after the original owners and rented this place out for many, many years, adding onto it here and there. There's awkwardness that we intend to change as the years pass. This is our second year in our home, so we haven't been here long. Our home was appraised for 140k after we bought it, and down the line we expect we'll take out an equity line of credit to make improvements to the flow of the home and update it where needed. But that's 5+ years ahead, as we're fine with it really and you're right- keeps me in the right company! I would love a friend or two in the same mindset nearby. I don't really have that, although I do have some friends... just sort of convenience things I think. I'm 29 but I get a long a lot better with the generation ahead of me and beyond. But with young kids, it makes it hard to have a social life at all. To give an example, my siblings were flabbergasted as to why we'd want to move further from the twin cities and into a HUD home no less. To each their own! I get to have big gardens and chickens and ducks and my kids can run around outside stark naked in the middle of summer if they want without neighbors having a tizzy. That's the life I want.

Whoo, rambling! I could talk about this all day. About the wood, we built (with insurance approval) an add on outdoor wood burning furnace, and next year we're going to take what we learned from that and make a boiler type. We just paid over $400.00/100 gallons of propane the other day. That has to end. When you can put pine wood in a boiler furnace at $150.00/cord and have it be far more efficient than anything else given cost, the writing is on the wall there for heating our home (and my greenhouse etc). So yes, heating with wood is a great one!