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I hear you. Here is what you will do:
what you can. The way to a better future is not to beat yourself up for what you cannot do. Better to be happy doing what you can. You have a six month old child and work full time? I work full time and I have two small children. So here is what I do:
what I can. I rush home from work and the minute I walk in the door - life is in full swing. My children are not peaceful and easy-going. They are demanding and sometimes downright horrid. And so I do what I need to do. I spend time with them. I sit down and I listen to them and I hold them and I read them a story perhaps.
The lovely thing about living this new lifestyle is that you place importance where it needs to be placed. For those of us with children, we take care of the children first. After that you work in what works best for your family.
I would love to tell you that I make all of our bread and I sew all of our clothing and that my floors shine from being waxed by hand - but it wouldn't be true. Don't get me wrong - I do make bread and I do sew and sometimes albeit rarely I scrub my floors on my hands and knees. But that is not a rule I live by.
Only you know what will work for you. There are so many good ideas presented here. Choose one that appeals to you and that you think perhaps you can do. Try it. And on the days that it doesn't get done - snuggle the baby and forget about the goal that wasn't met.
And take joy in what you do accomplish. Pat yourself on the back for the successes. Oh yes - and update us all about the new things you tried and what worked...and what didn't work. We are all a work in progress right?
Great response, that is truly what it is all about. Not having a Better Homes and Gardens worthy house, but having a happy home filled with love, and less bills to pay. Try out one new idea, if it doesn't work for you toss it. If it does then great! Add other ideas as you have time, the idea is to enjoy family life more, not cram more to do's onto an already long list that is impossible to complete!
Btw. kids kept in perfectly sanitary/white glove homes never develop immunities to germs and thus are unable to fend them off as they enter school and other public and often very unsanitary locations. Yes, germs are bad but they are everywhere, and mutating all the time to develop their own immunity against all of our "advanced" anti-biotic, anti-fungal stuff.. Good old Soap and Water does the trick! And grandma's home cold remedies actually help build our immune systems instead of over-riding them. Sorry rant over!