Hubby is 80. In years past I took care of my father until he passed away and my mother-in-law. My mother passed away when she was 55 and my father-in-law was 69 when he passed. My father was 71 and my mother-in-law was 94. In her later years it was a struggle as she developed dementia. I'm not complaining I did what I had to do.I was keeping my feed out at the coop to save hauling it up from the shop every day but had to move my garbage cans (those puppies hold 100 pounds of food!) back down to the shop due to a raccoon trying to get into them and tearing up my work area. Got rid of the Raccoon but there are always more in the wings here.
@cmom, I'm sorry to hear that you DH has PD. We lost a dear friend to it two years ago. Not to the PD directly but to a fall caused by the PD. Does your husband see a motion specialist? I was talking to our late friend's wife not too long ago and she said that the motion (may be movement) specialist that her husband saw helped him more than any other doc that he went to.
As for being forgetful, welcome to the club! Seriously, I have note books that I stage around the house so I can write things down. The worst was when I had Lyme disease and it affected my memory horribly. I was working with my husband at the time as his office manager/nurse and had a notebook that I kept on my desk. I didn't have to write down whole sentences, just catch words that would spur my memory on. It worked quite well. We found the notebook recently and flipped through it. He was amazed how I managed to keep track of things while I was so sick.
It's tough being a care giver on top of having age related pain to deal with. I was a care giver to both of my parents for almost 20 years between the two of them. Make sure to take care of the care giver. With all you do or try to do you sound a lot like me. Promise?
@Sequel we have the frost free hydrants. The only problem we have from them is that the o-rings wear out and they start to leak. Replacing them is a pain in the back side.
How do you guys deal with opening bags and dumping them in containers? I usually have to ask DH to help and carry a pocket knife with me but they sure don't make it easy for us old folk!
I have a lot of birds. Currently over 400 counting the youngsters. Going to sell some of the young males on Saturday. I leave the feed in the bags until I feed the birds. I buy around 1000 lbs of feed monthly. Before I converted the feed shed into a coop I stored the feed in it in buckets. It is easier for me to work out of the buckets. Most of the coops have 40# feeders in them and I have a dozen coops. A lot of work. Not complaining. Luckily I have people who usually buy my birds when I have some to sell. It helps to offset the cost of the feed especially selling the excess males. I do keep the best as future breeders. I don't know how many more years I can do this but will keep going as long as I can. It is a joy for me to set up my breeding pens every year and see how the chicks turn out from my breeding selections. I don't usually hatch this late in the year but I put some RIW eggs in a small homemade styrofoam incubator that I made out of a cooler. It works good. I have a cabinet incubator but didn't want to fire it up for 2 1/2 dozen eggs. I didn't have a good RIW hatch so I put another male in with the hens. We will see.