I am so sorry about your loss!!! Thank you for letting us know about the pasta thing though. I feed mine from the table as well even though my DH doesn't like it. And they do get pasta a few times a week but they also get meat and oats. Not very much fruit or veggies from here. We are a meat and potatoes kind of family. But they really love my sphagetti(sp). I'll have to cut back. Thank you for sharing what you have learned from the passing of your sweet family member.