Update on my friend: he really shouldn't be alone any more for hours at a time. I spent yesterday looking for a Medicaid nursing home. I found a really nice one. It was so clean with lots of natural light and high ceilings. The patients looked clean and happy. I'll post a foto of the lobby, it is a tropical paradise with waterfalls and canals and plants. The 3 closest friends talked with him today and he agreed to go. He felt he needed to. It feels so fast. Here's a foto of us a week or so ago. He doesn't look like this now.
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You are an Angel. Truly.
