Maybe I am just in a resentful mood. But I am sick of being the only one to do any house work.
I have a 16 year old and a 20 year old. I have to work real hard with them to get them to do their chores well. So you have a long road ahead. I can say that with supervision and encouragement my 16 year old will do his chores. My 20 year old needs just a reminder. They both don't sass or refuse. My kids have been doing chores all their lives and I tried to work with them and make it positive when they were young. Then as teens I had to say ' if you want that ride to the tennis court - get the trash out and the dishwasher unloaded first'. That all worked well. Just know it is a long long road.............patience.
