First off, I have spent the afternoon looking around, and calling around about geldings. That being said. And Im sorry if this isn't what you all want to hear. Im Sorry DH bought ed. I love him a lot but knew as soon as I saw the ticket saying he was a stud colt we where in for a world of pain. That being said we did buy him, and short of giving him to a rescue, there are not alot of people around here wanting to buy a NICE miniature horse much less one that is not only is a little fugly looking but also now has attitude. We are not finanically well off. I am not trying to excuse this I am just trying to let everyone know before hand, that we do the best we can do for Edward and for the rest of our animals. My DH is unemployed, I lost a job of 5 years this summer and at my new job took a $1 pay cut. This was all AFTER we got Edward. I considered rehoming him this fall, but 1. no one was interested and 2. We seemed to be doing very well with him.
Also I am a responsable person, I first off Never sat the full weight of a child on his back (mom was holding her just so she could feel ed under her and he could feel her on him, so she wouldn't of fallen, and I know no weight on him till 3. Second I had been working with him all summer and fall, we where working on lunging, as well as verbal comands for Go and Stop. To the point that he would stop with no physical pulling or anything just because I said Whoa. So I guess I just feel a little trodden upon by the people who I know are just trying to help, I have no intention of taking him to an auction, I will never pawn off my problems on someone else. Of course I wish things where different, Of course I wish I could afford to pay for a trainer, and to have him gelded tomorrow. but truth is I can't. You can berate me for that, but it won't change the fact that I have $30 until I get paid again, at which point, after paying rent I will have about $100 more. At this time I am looking into seeing if a vet will allow me to do a payment plan. We have no credit cards, and no one to borrow the money from. I still owe my mother in law $200 from when we where both unemployed this summer.
This attitude seems to have happened over night, One day fine, then the back kicking started, Always these things happen to DH before me, Then the biting (which is something we delt with when we first got him, and had broke him of, we thought, many months ago. Now the scarriest part to me is the rearing up and front kicking.
Today after I was out there, he got out of his pen, we didn't notice for about 20 minutes, when we went out to replace frozen waterbottles, and rewater everyone he was standing in the front yard, we finished watering everyone and I walked up to him and he let me get his halter no problem, he walked great up till the driveway when he slipped on ice (covered in snow, I didn't realize was there), I didn't see it DH from behind did, this freaked him out (understandably I think) and he tried to rear, Me not knowing he slipped pulled down on the halter to keep him from going up and Firmly Said "NO , Ed, NO" it took a couple seconds before he calmed, we then made the rest of the walk to his pen easily with no problems.
So I am planning on gelding, as soon as possible, I need ideas for in between, also this just occurred to me, they have to go into a vet to be gelded? or do they somehow do it at the farm? I have no horse trailer, he rode home in a friends SUV, which he will not fit in now. Another thing to worry about I guess. And as far as giving up cable, we have no cable, only the very basic internet service and a cell phone (our only phone) which is $35 a month. So there are not exactly a lot of things to cut into money wise or trust me I would be doing it.
Thank you to those who have helped, and to those whom I'm not a good enough owner for Ed, I'm sorry I am doing the best I can do, and that's all I can do. Any suggestions for helping with the attitude until then, including what to look for, and how to correct it, or preferably prevent it from happening would be greatly appreciated.