You don't know how many times I have seen your name and wondered if there was a connection, as Webb is my maiden name. I am sorry that your husband's real grandmother died so tragically. But I bet if your Webb's are like my family...it doesn't matter if we are really blood relatives or not. We still treat each other like we are. Now you will be able to tell if there is really a connection between our families if Gramma Margie has ever sewn things for family members and forgotten to take all the pins out of them before she gives them as gifts. (Pajama's when I was 12 years old, entire yoke had all the pins from gathering the fabric still in between the facing and the right side of the fabric). I kept complaining about get picked at night, and my mother thought I was nuts.
Most of my family is from Coastal Maine, one escaped to NH and one of his sons keep going and made it to Florida. The renegade would be called Scott.