When my brother and i would fight and go running to tell on each other, my Dad would tell us that we each could decide on what punishment the other one was going to get.
That made us not want to punish the other one badly because then the other still got to choose the punishment for you.
Also he got tired of spanking every day or so. We then had "Friday" spanking days. So if it was Saturday and we did something that would get us a spanking we learned quick to be very very good and be nice and most of the time we could get out of the spanking. It was usually my Mom who decided on if it happened because we knew better to upset our Dad. Never Dad... I sure hated Fridays!
The most unusual punishment I delt out to my kids was when my 3 boys (who shared a room) would not go to sleep. Every night I would tell them over and over to be quiet and go to sleep. Every night they would laugh, and fight and do what three boys do when they bunk together.
But I was very tired of them not listening to me. So one night I decided that if they wanted to stay up, they were going to stay up. I would not let them go to sleep. I sat in a rocking chair and when one would start to doze, I would wake him up. At first they thought it was great. Then they got tired, more tired, crazy tired. It was about 3 in the am before they begged enough for me to give in.
I told them that was how I felt when I couldn't sleep because they were loud. They pretty much never had to be told twice again. I could hear them whisper, but I let that slide.
That made us not want to punish the other one badly because then the other still got to choose the punishment for you.
Also he got tired of spanking every day or so. We then had "Friday" spanking days. So if it was Saturday and we did something that would get us a spanking we learned quick to be very very good and be nice and most of the time we could get out of the spanking. It was usually my Mom who decided on if it happened because we knew better to upset our Dad. Never Dad... I sure hated Fridays!
The most unusual punishment I delt out to my kids was when my 3 boys (who shared a room) would not go to sleep. Every night I would tell them over and over to be quiet and go to sleep. Every night they would laugh, and fight and do what three boys do when they bunk together.
But I was very tired of them not listening to me. So one night I decided that if they wanted to stay up, they were going to stay up. I would not let them go to sleep. I sat in a rocking chair and when one would start to doze, I would wake him up. At first they thought it was great. Then they got tired, more tired, crazy tired. It was about 3 in the am before they begged enough for me to give in.
I told them that was how I felt when I couldn't sleep because they were loud. They pretty much never had to be told twice again. I could hear them whisper, but I let that slide.