Ok, this is just my opinion, and comes from my own babies, but here goes:
First, we've been holding our little guys nearly constantly since we brought them home. Sometimes they SEEK out affection, sometimes they run from me. They love it when I bring them treats though, and will come over to see what I've brought!
So my theory with my guys
is that most of them DO like to be petted, they just hate to be caught. Kwim? If we move slowly they'll let us pick them up, but they still squawk and carry on. Once I am actually cuddling them, though, they settle down and sometimes take a nap.
This doesn't go for ALL of my chicks, though. For my group (not generalizing on all people's birds here, though, so please don't be offended), my RIR's are REALLY standoffish and don't like to be petted. My BR's tolerate it well, and some even enjoy it. My NHRs LOVE pettings. Will even jump into my hand! And everyone in this brood has been held about the same amount. I talk to them all the time, and they do cheep back to me.
So a few treats, and lots of holding.
I really hope I end up with a LAP CHICKEN!! That would ROCK! Well.. if I remember to keep a lap cloth close by...
Good luck with your babies!
Meghan