My dad has cute anemia/He passed away

[Moochie]

This morning we went to the Family Support Center on EAFB and got help from a friend that my dad used to work with. He's going to handle everything and is going to help us through this. He already called a guy from Bakersfield to come over to our house today, he's going to help us plan what to do with my dad concerning funeral service if we wish to do a funeral. We have to pick a mortuary or something like that.
Thank you for your advice fellow chicken people, it's really appreciated. We called one of my half brothers early this morning around 1am, his wife picked up and said she would call us sometime today. My other half brother lives in TX and the numbers we have aren't working so we'll have to get a number from my SoCal half brother. By half brother I mean same dad different mom. My dad actually told us not to contact them if anything happens to him because he didn't like them very much, they never call us, never did anything for my dad's previous birthdays, never did anything for holidays, my dad said that they're so selfish that they're not his sons and didn't want anything to do with them. What really ticked my dad off in the past was when he asked both of my brothers if they would take me in if something ever happened to him and they didn't say anything on the phone. But we have to do the right thing and tell them about my dad.. He was their dad too.

 

[turney31]

I am so sorry Moochie

 

[Glenmar]

 

[Moochie]

Did this all happen so suddenly because we took away his wine? I just find it strange he started getting severe symptoms of anemia right after we took alcohol away from him.

 

[NovaAman]

No sweety, they were there, and he knew it, but didn't share. Men are funny that way. Its not because you took away the wine. I am so sorry for your loss. Be strong, your mom is going to seriously need you. People are for you here too.

 

[Moochie]

I would also like to say that what's happening right now sounds like the tarot card readings I got back in March of this year. I don't remember the pictures on the cards but the woman who gave me the reading told me this - First card: A terrible event will occur, Second card: Financial/money problems after that, Third card: Something really great and positive will happen after the first two.
I'm not very religious, in fact I'm agnostic, but that just sounds really weird and I honestly wasn't expecting a tarot card reading to be true.. I just wanted to get one because it seemed cool.

 

[onedoodle3]

So sorry, Moochie!

No, taking away the wine did not cause this. MOST men are closemouthed about health problems. I'm sorry you are going through this. I will be praying for you and your mom.

 

[ladychicken&Ducklover]

Hi Moochie,
I just read your post from start to just now and I wish to express my sympathies to your and your mother at this time of need.

If it helps any, I, too , was a senior in high school when I lost my dad suddenly. He never said he was in any pain, didnt want any advice about losing weight, etc.

I was on a date and when I walked in the door, I was greeted by my mom and dad getting ready to go to the hospital.

My mom was too upset to drive, so I felt a need to step up and drive him to the hospital..On our way there, he complained of a pain in his chest, then it was over.

This was 33 years ago.

If there is any little advice, it would be to be there as support for your mom as much as you can. Yes, she has family in Korea, but ,take it from a current mom of teens your age, there's nothing better and more heartwarming and therapeutic, than the love and support from their child !!

I know you are agnostic,and I totally respect that.

I am an ordained minister of the Non-Denominational faith , and I will offer up prayers for whoever you wish, at my next service.

Just let me know the names and I will be happy to.

You will be fine, and will get thru this.

Sincerely,

Rev. Deirdre Claud Ph.D

 

[ChicknThief]

I am so so sorry for your loss Moochie

 

[sourland]

So sorry, Moochie!

No, taking away the wine did not cause this. MOST men are closemouthed about health problems. I'm sorry you are going through this. I will be praying for you and your mom.

Moochie, as a man I can verify what 1d3 has just sad. I'm so very sorry for your loss.