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Blooie...Hey, Suzie? How's everything going? We worry - that's what we do. And we're so GOOD at it!
Rachel, good job on finally getting to ride. How's the job going?
Not great news about your heart but I am laughing so much as to your explanation...Yep, Suzie, to me all sour things call for salt! Salt on rhubarb (just had my first stalk of that out of the garden yesterday!) salt on grapefruit, and salt on green apples. One good burp, and then follow it up with a cigarette. I don't know why I had a heart attack in February..........
Spook. I love your attitude! I can say that it's a direct contrast to some attitudes I've seen in my working career. I remember one situation that will live with me for ever. A gentleman was being discharged back home to live with his wife. This time, he would be going at wheel chair level. His wife was complaining that there was no room for the wheel chair to get through the house. Upon further questioning, we found that the house was jam packed with furniture. But not just any furniture, it was her prized Moose Head furniture. We suggested that she could move some of it into storage to make room. She became indignant. No way was she going to move her prized furniture, nor was she going to allow her husband to be tooling around in a wheel chair and possibly scratch her prized furniture. I ended up being the bad guy because I recommended the w/c, and was not a "good enough therapist" to make her husband walk again. How very sad that this woman put her stuff above her husband's comfort.It's just ...stuff.
And now, I'm the one left with all this stuff.
Sure, it has a dollar value.
But it isn't for sale. I may very well give it away,
here and there.
Out life wasn't about getting any particular thing.
It was about the journey we took together. We just called
it life.
And that's what I have left now, the memories of our walk
through life together.
As I guess most of us did, Barb and I started out with very little
in material stuff. Cast off furniture from our parents, yard sale and
thrift store stuff.
Through the years, it got replaced with better things a time or two.
Very few things remain from the beginning. A few pieces, yes.
But for the most part as I look at what remains, I don't see it as
a dollar investment, or worth selling. I see instead, the memory
of how we came to have what ever it is.
When our daughter was still small, two-three years old, she really
liked a painting we had on the wall. Something I had just given
$400 for. Pretty nice painting for us. I've never made it a secret,
I dote on my daughter. So I took that painting off our living room
wall and gave it to her. Look at it, play with it, destroy it, I didn't
care. Painting survived, and it's still on the wall. She just made it
a little more special for us.
After Barb's dad had his stroke and came to live with us, he was
in his wheelchair. He had trouble getting himself around in the house.
I told him straight up, anything that gets in your way is out of here.
Furniture, a wall, carpet...it didn't make me a bit of difference. He
mattered to me a whole more that the stuff I own.
It's just stuff, things.
You can take my stuff. You can't take the memories.
Yep, Suzie, to me all sour things call for salt! Salt on rhubarb (just had my first stalk of that out of the garden yesterday!) salt on grapefruit, and salt on green apples. One good burp, and then follow it up with a cigarette. I don't know why I had a heart attack in February..........
I was so fortunate that the family of five across the street is homeschooling. As we passed a year I toted it across the street.Thanks for talking about memories and stuff! It's helping me to know that after nearly 19 years of homeschooling that at the end of this school year I will need nothing under 11th grade! It needs to go! And so does stuff in the laundry, family and bedrooms! And the closets,only the Lord knows what's in there! Well, off to bed. It's 3 am and i need to be leaving about 7 for the poultry swap. Really wanted to see that brown egg chick hatch! They all look alike even though some are olive egg colored from Americaunas and some are from brown egg Welsummers!