My leukemia's back.

View attachment 1249204Had a really nice time yesterday with a few of our kids and a couple of grandkids. One daughter came back after visiting another sis. She talked with us about some things. Sounds like a trust is the way to go all right. A will can be taken to court by family, disputed. I just pray that they will all be.. good kids! Having said that, I will be talking with each one, asking them if there is anything in particular that they grew up with, that we may still have, they want. Make a list. Going to rethink giving the the house to our youngest. Oh yeah. :) This...will come together. Glad we are starting some things. Will be having a lawer over probably within a months time. Well, like that cute little critter is saying above, hope everyone is having a great day. Count your blessings. :) They are there in big numbers!
Weird....I had that talk with my kids yesterday.
I wanted to sell some of my guns to build a garage. My one German Luger alone is worth around $6k..... My oldest son said no he wanted it.....I found this odd as I've bought him several hunting guns through out the years. And he's never even taken them out of the box.
That gun is my most prized possession.... But yeah I explained to him that if I just sold two guns I could put this garage up without borrowing any money. He seems adamant that he wants this gun.
I told the wife it's funny that he never knew I had it till yesterday.
There's gonna be a little tuff I think cuz I told my youngest son that Carson has to get my great great grandpa's old gold pocket watch as he's the oldest grandson within the Randall bloodline...... That's not going to go over good with Jeremy cuz Mason is the oldest legal grandson...... But he's adopted and it was made clear to me the watch had to go to Randall blood...... Even though I love the kids all equally....... But here's the deal....I will save everything..... And if be pretty well off it I sold it...... Especially my tools. .... But I just don't want to hold this stuff if they are going to sell it anyways. Heck they all are doing better than me as it is........ Okay rant over......
 
I honestly believe that the funeral business is a racket that preys on grieving people who aren't always thinking straight. It seems like they want you to feel like you're not honoring the deceased properly if you don't get the top of the line everything. There is a place near here that makes wood caskets. That would be my choice. Much less expensive than the ones the funeral home sells. And, it's OK if the grave liner leaks. I'm not gonna care.
I just want to be creamated and my ashes put in a jar and sunk to the bottom of little lake
 
I have issues with my mom's side of my family, and i think why the autopsy was nixed was because they don't want to admit that maybe someone else may be my father or they just wanted to mess with me. my brother's take after mom's side and to say they are scum, I would be insulting scum to the point I would lose sleep over it for at least a decade,,,,, at his funeral 3 of my mom's brothers got the funeral director to ban me from being a pallbearer and the one that headed up the veto told me that they where more related to him by marriage than I was related to him. They threatened to have me banned from the service because they should have a say since they were "more related" to him and I was being "mean and nasty" because I wanted a say in my biological father's funeral.
Dang sounds like my wife's side of the family.....
 
Good morning Team Rachel. Try to enjoy the day.

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While I'm alive, my stuff is mine, and I'll do what I darned well please with it. The family inherits what's left, and only after I'm dead, and it's been distributed to them.
I believe that too.... But I also don't want to get rid of my stuff.
My problem had more to do with not wanting it just sold off like it was nothing.
It's hard to be always struggling..... When you have investments and collectables but it's easier to enjoy them if you know they will be around for my grandkids to enjoy too.
Kinda like my tools.....I could sell them and buy a motorhome or something. But I'm not ready to do that as I still use them all the time.
My kids don't even know how to change there own oil..... It want too..... So I guess when the time comes and I'm no longer able to work on stuff I'll probably entertain the thought to sell them.
 

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