@Alaskan, thinking of you. I've been through this with my parents and the Princess's. Even when you know it is for the best and think that you are ready --- you're not. Good luck with the preparations and traveling.
Today I miss my Dad, but the thought of him gives me a smile.
Talked to son, and Jenny is responding. They have ruled out meningitis - good thing. She is deaf in her left ear, and they are not certain why or if it will be permanent. My son is a good father and real man in the way he is dealing with this. Once again I have to let him know how proud I am to be his Dad.