My leukemia's back.

One of my brothers called me because he's mad because me and the other brother got our life ins. payout from mom's life ins. he told me he sent his in after we did, and I asked if he sent it in certified return receipt he said he never, and why would he spend good money to mail it in, I was like because you want to make sure they get it for 1 and because you put them on notice that you know they got it for 2. And he proceeded to get mad at me because he never got his share. He asked me what kind of envelope did it come in because he throws away mail that he thinks is junk mail without opening it. I was like you call me up yell at me because you don't make sure they get a letter you mail to them and you do not check your mail thoroughly and you get mad at me because of it? I am so over stupid, and to think our parents PAID his tuition thru college and wouldn't spend one red cent for me to go to either a trade school or college. He went to one of the best schools of journalism in the country no less and can't figure simple stuff like that out for himself... sorry for the venting here folks but I am so tired of dealing with people mad at me for their actions and inaction. I know I am not all that smart, but I expect those who are as smart as I or above to act like they are smart, but it seems odd that people who are supposed to be mentally handicapped seem to be more highly intelligent than "normal people" it makes me want to spend more time with the mentally handicapped to talk about things that requires more brain power than the "normal" idiots I come across. BTW my parents screwed any chance I had to get into the military (I wanted to join up. I'm not stupid, I'd get get a room, 3 meals a day, clothing, job training and money for college for trading my freedom and possibly my life for it).
 
oldrooster, he can call the insurance company to verify whether they got his mail, or not. He can also ask whether they sent his money yet. He should take note of the insurance company's name, since they will send it in one of their business envelopes, and it will probably look like junk mail. IF they already sent it, and he threw it out, he can inform them. After a waiting period, they will re-issue the money to him.
 
GAC what frustrated me was he called me up yelling at me and blaming me because he wasn't smart enough to do what he needed to do to begin with send the forms in certified return receipt, and read his mail. And he got mad when I told him to call them up, because it's easier to look up my number in his phone and gripe at me because of him being stupid. I went to school many years after getting out of high school, and had to pay for it myself because mom and dad wouldn't spend the money on me just their "pets" mom liked the one who blames me for HIS actions, dad liked the other one best.
 
One of my brothers called me because he's mad because me and the other brother got our life ins. payout from mom's life ins. he told me he sent his in after we did, and I asked if he sent it in certified return receipt he said he never, and why would he spend good money to mail it in, I was like because you want to make sure they get it for 1 and because you put them on notice that you know they got it for 2. And he proceeded to get mad at me because he never got his share. He asked me what kind of envelope did it come in because he throws away mail that he thinks is junk mail without opening it. I was like you call me up yell at me because you don't make sure they get a letter you mail to them and you do not check your mail thoroughly and you get mad at me because of it? I am so over stupid, and to think our parents PAID his tuition thru college and wouldn't spend one red cent for me to go to either a trade school or college. He went to one of the best schools of journalism in the country no less and can't figure simple stuff like that out for himself... sorry for the venting here folks but I am so tired of dealing with people mad at me for their actions and inaction. I know I am not all that smart, but I expect those who are as smart as I or above to act like they are smart, but it seems odd that people who are supposed to be mentally handicapped seem to be more highly intelligent than "normal people" it makes me want to spend more time with the mentally handicapped to talk about things that requires more brain power than the "normal" idiots I come across. BTW my parents screwed any chance I had to get into the military (I wanted to join up. I'm not stupid, I'd get get a room, 3 meals a day, clothing, job training and money for college for trading my freedom and possibly my life for it).
I would deflect them. It the above situation, Say something about being sorry that happened. Then ask them what the think would help them get their problem solved. Try to get them to work on figuring stuff out.

GAC had a good answer for the next steps for the brother. You do not have anything to do with Insurance disbursements
 
Your DH will not be able to sleep tonight without a sleep mask!

@oldrooster Sorry for your troubles and family. Brother has no reason to be mad you got what you applied for. It isn't like you and your other brother got his share. And yeah maybe he should look at his "junk mail" just to be sure it is junk. The insurance company isn't going to send an envelope that says "Do not discard, big insurance payout inside".
 

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