Welcome to BYC. I am sorry to hear about your rooster, and hope he gets well. I am glad to hear the website has been good to you, and I am glad your chickens are helping you to find peace. My father is a disabled vet with PTSD, so I know a little about where you are coming from. The fact that you've come here makes me happy, because just about everyone here is kind and helpful, and I think you will enjoy your time here.
Tagging posters is easy. Just put an '@' in front of the poster's name you wish to tag. If I needed to tag you, then I would type
@Gustaf mom somewhere in the body of the post I was writing. You can also send private messages to individual posters.