123ChickieLou, I'm sorry it all went this way, but I still think all of this could have been avoided by just talking to the neighbor in the first place. You can't fix something if you don't know its broken, The neighbor was way wrong in clipping you hens wings, I hole heartidly agree! The right thing that he should have done was to come and talk to you, right? But you didn't talk to him, and yet you expected him to come over and talk to you?? I don't really get the logic of this.
You really seem like a nice person, I don't think that your neighbor was being malicious, sounds to me like he went about fixing the situation without telling you that there was a problem either, He obviously knew his little Roo was a problem with him, but might not have had a clue he the Rooster was a problem with you too. All it probably would have taken might have been to just speak to the neighbor in a nice little chat. That would have saved all the angry feelings.
I really believe in a couple of old addages, that you don't here too much anymore the older folks use to use.
1. An ounce of prevention is worth a lb of cure and
2. A stitch in time saves nine.
Alls I'm saying is that I think that the first step in problem solving is to talk the matter out, if that doesn't work then you go to the next step.
I hope my opinion doesn't upset you, I'm not trying to be harsh its just the way I see things.
I hope you and your neighbor can work out the issue and still be friends.