my new pyr was guarding my chicks and bit my husband...

[onthespot]

if he doesn't own a pair, you could grow a set yourself and just go get the dog you want and tell him how it's gonna be for a change. Who died and left him the sole decider in your house?

 

[Wolf-Kim]

Get a pup. Something small(are they ever "small"? LOL), cute, and fluffy, even your DH couldn't say no to that. It makes a huge difference for some people between raising a dog from a puppy and getting a partial grown or adult dog. It's different when you raise the pup from a smaller point, because no matter how big they get, you'll always see that little puppy.

 

[goldeneggtees]

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He actually does like animals, especially dogs and cats, but he has some conversation in his mind that "it's not responsible" for a big family on a limited budget (like who isn't on a limited budget) to spend any money on dogs...

guitars, well, that's a different story.

Anyway, he actually admitted today that he only said OK to the dog to "make you happy"--which actually made me end up pretty unhappy, because when the first dog didn't work out, I was sure he'd be OK with replacing it (especially after 4 days), and when he knee-jerked into "NO MORE DOGS", it sucks, and of course, I'm sad. And then he goes all wishy washy on "get a puppy, nevermind, bad idea, well, ok fine get one"--it's driving me nuts, and I don't know what his deal is. But his indecisive and wishy washy approach probably confused the first dog (if they sense this kind of thing, which I think they do)...ugh, why can't people just commit to something and choose to enjoy it, or at least get out of the way and keep their emotions in check while others get joy from it.

sorry for the rant...

Wow! It sounds like he doesn't know what he wants but I can totally understand the monetary issues. We are in the same boat. Animals can be expensive, especially the vet bills! As for the guitars? Doesn't sound fair but everyone needs an outlet :–) My DH doesn't like to spend money on anything. And I'm always the one doing the spending, makes him angry. Even the heat lamp in the coop has been an issue what with the electric constantly going.

I have a crazy story: we had an older chow mix dog for many years and I wanted another smaller dog. So, I talked to him about it and he was not interested. I tried bribing him and jokingly he agreed. Then, one day, my kids and I showed up with a small white fluffball. He was NOT happy. But during the past 4 years we've had the little guy, he's grown to love him. I ask him everyday, you love him don't you? Of course he hates to admit it but then I catch him playing with him or hugging him in bed and I know I made the right decision even though it went against what he wanted. I'm bad like that. Having said that, I'll let you know when the divorce papers get served

YIKES! Hope that never happens!

 

[bettisworth]

HAHA!! CLUCK CLUCK!

This thread went from a G PYR thread to an "animal farm" presentation! Seems as if the Hens are trying to overrule the roosters, and become the swine they tried to slaughter!

If you are willing to give up your man over a dog, I'd say the "chicken roost" is a very cold place at night, and he'd probably be better off on getting rid of his Heifer, and get a dog . At least the dog will show gratitude on days other than payday!!! Gee, am I stereotyping? What's good for the goose is good for the gander!!! Men? any comments?

Now as I am dodging shoes.........LOL just a little humor my little egglayers!

 

[cassie]

Gee. If it were me, I would keep the dog and rehome the husband....

 

[patyrdz]

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OOOOOOOOOOOO.......Shame!

Naughty Naughty

 

[trueblueshowgirl]

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You know, there's medication for that.

Seriously, it sounds like you hubby has some issues that need to be addressed. Anger issues can be the result of a of a medical condition that is usually treatable. There are oodles of conditions that can cause irritability and a short fuse. Just thought it worth mentioning. Maybe Google some on it.

Sorry about the Pyr not working out. They're amazing dogs. To be honest, I'd be quite nervous keeping a dog who bites humans- guardian or not. Elbow height on a grown man is face height on a six year old child.

 

[JJMR794]

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[mekasmom]

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I agree with this. I wouldn't tolerate a hubby who was harsh, impatient, easily agitated, didn't like dogs........... The dog would be a better fit for my personality.

 

[Creativedogma]

Dogs have good instincts...maybe he was trying to tell you something.