My Spite Journey

MuthaCluckas

Chirping
Feb 11, 2025
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Dear BYC Diary:
I have been on a "spite" journey since November. (LONG Backstory: Im a SAHM living on my in-laws ranch ((they want us to "take over" soon)), all of my energy goes into my kids & I made this very clear when unexpectedly expecting our 3rd [making 3 under 4]. She dismissed me and made an arrangment with our neighbor for her to hatch 2 doz chicks for ME to care for (as pullets)).
I knew 0% of anything besides they eat scratch & lay eggs. I had concerns over her(MIL) existing coop that were dismissed as well. Well. They all died in various ways following the limited advice [and coop issues I mentioned] I was given. I was heartbroken as I had gotten attached.) That was the start of my BYC involvement - research. All hours of the night like I was back in my college zoology course. I found a great coop design, and set to work on *meticulously* planning every detail, every beam of wood. For 7 months now, this has been my active goal. My coop is 90% done, the very first chicks Ive ever ordered are hatching today, my brooder is being set up after I finish my *very much needed* 2nd cup of coffee.. but I know the hard part is still not over.
Why, is all of this out of spite you ask? Because my MIL decided to bash my experience - as an all around measure to my very being. I truly believe she set me up to fail & I cannot accept that. So Im doing the classic "go big or go home". This is my home, so I must go big. This site has been my haven for the better part of a year now so its only natural I put this here to get off my shoulders. They hurt enough with this coop construction 😂.
 
They're here! My very first chicks are here!!

I lost 1 to shipping (which I hoped against, but expected) but the other 17 made it through the night and are all thriving so far! 🥰
 

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Dear BYC Diary:
I have been on a "spite" journey since November. (LONG Backstory: Im a SAHM living on my in-laws ranch ((they want us to "take over" soon)), all of my energy goes into my kids & I made this very clear when unexpectedly expecting our 3rd [making 3 under 4]. She dismissed me and made an arrangment with our neighbor for her to hatch 2 doz chicks for ME to care for (as pullets)).
I knew 0% of anything besides they eat scratch & lay eggs. I had concerns over her(MIL) existing coop that were dismissed as well. Well. They all died in various ways following the limited advice [and coop issues I mentioned] I was given. I was heartbroken as I had gotten attached.) That was the start of my BYC involvement - research. All hours of the night like I was back in my college zoology course. I found a great coop design, and set to work on *meticulously* planning every detail, every beam of wood. For 7 months now, this has been my active goal. My coop is 90% done, the very first chicks Ive ever ordered are hatching today, my brooder is being set up after I finish my *very much needed* 2nd cup of coffee.. but I know the hard part is still not over.
Why, is all of this out of spite you ask? Because my MIL decided to bash my experience - as an all around measure to my very being. I truly believe she set me up to fail & I cannot accept that. So Im doing the classic "go big or go home". This is my home, so I must go big. This site has been my haven for the better part of a year now so its only natural I put this here to get off my shoulders. They hurt enough with this coop construction 😂.
Like I told my grandson and granddaughter when I had them from 2yrs old and 8 wks respectively till they started school. When they would try something, "it's not I can do this, it's I will do this". Don't do it out of spite, do for self satisfaction and keep it in your pocket.
 
"it's not I can do this, it's I will do this". Don't do it out of spite, do for self satisfaction
I did alter my thinking...partially.. because in all reality - I LOVE animals & I LOVE learning. But spite was 100% the reason I started this now rather than later -when I felt I'd be ready to- and I have gotten immense satisfaction from it already. My MIL has a 100% death rate on chicks & other than the FTT + shipping loss, mine are all happy, healthy & thriving! That win alone was enough for me. Now it's just about them; giving them the absolute best that I can & having my own space with them to start getting back to my own hobbies:)
 

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