No touch, no talk, no eye contact.
Very simple rules, but very hard to follow - especially for visitors. For some reason, people see a dog - esp little ones - and they just want to pet it and talk to it and well, scare it half to death.
I agree with dianneS, small dog symdrome. DH works at a barn that has a min pin. It barks at EVERYTHING!! It's owners don't do anything to discourage the behavior - among other things - so she is a terror. I ignore her when they are around and I correct her when they are not....I know, I know, but if the OWNER won't do anything, someone has to..... She is a HORRIBLE horse chaser!!! At least she doesn't when I'm around. And the barking, I can get her to stop - when her owner is not around. If he's there, oh well, ain't gonna happen.
The key is to establish that you are the leader and what you say goes. If you say hush, then hush it is - no if's and's or but's. My dogs have learned to stop what they are doing if I snap my fingers. They also have learned how to follow hand singnals. I don't need to yell - yelling only gets the dog more excited anyway.
You must be calm - even when your dog is being a total spaz. If you're not calm, you only encourage the dog's bad behavior. Also, when you enter the room (or anyone does) IGNORE THE DOG!! Do not talk to it until it's calm. Do not pet it until it's calm. Do not give it what it wants until it's calm.
If you pet the dog in an excited state, it will associate the reward of being touched with it's bad behavior. Your dog has a fear/excitement issue - that's why it pees and you are petting it when it pees. The dog DOES NOT differentiate between the peeing and the excitement and the petting. It's all one thing. If you wait to acknowledge the dog until it calms down and is quiet, you'll notice a serious decrease in the peeing.
You have to unlearn your behavior as the dog has to unlearn it's. You must be consistant and firm. Do not give into those sad little eyes!!!!
Good luck!
Very simple rules, but very hard to follow - especially for visitors. For some reason, people see a dog - esp little ones - and they just want to pet it and talk to it and well, scare it half to death.
I agree with dianneS, small dog symdrome. DH works at a barn that has a min pin. It barks at EVERYTHING!! It's owners don't do anything to discourage the behavior - among other things - so she is a terror. I ignore her when they are around and I correct her when they are not....I know, I know, but if the OWNER won't do anything, someone has to..... She is a HORRIBLE horse chaser!!! At least she doesn't when I'm around. And the barking, I can get her to stop - when her owner is not around. If he's there, oh well, ain't gonna happen.
The key is to establish that you are the leader and what you say goes. If you say hush, then hush it is - no if's and's or but's. My dogs have learned to stop what they are doing if I snap my fingers. They also have learned how to follow hand singnals. I don't need to yell - yelling only gets the dog more excited anyway.
You must be calm - even when your dog is being a total spaz. If you're not calm, you only encourage the dog's bad behavior. Also, when you enter the room (or anyone does) IGNORE THE DOG!! Do not talk to it until it's calm. Do not pet it until it's calm. Do not give it what it wants until it's calm.
If you pet the dog in an excited state, it will associate the reward of being touched with it's bad behavior. Your dog has a fear/excitement issue - that's why it pees and you are petting it when it pees. The dog DOES NOT differentiate between the peeing and the excitement and the petting. It's all one thing. If you wait to acknowledge the dog until it calms down and is quiet, you'll notice a serious decrease in the peeing.
You have to unlearn your behavior as the dog has to unlearn it's. You must be consistant and firm. Do not give into those sad little eyes!!!!
Good luck!
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