I usually just go to the urban dictionary site. There's a search function, but you'll pull up too much info. There have been some lists made, but I don't know where to find them. If I can't figure it out, I just ask. The chicken breed abbreviations, of course, cannot be found in the urban dictionary. They're pretty easy to get once you're familiar with the common breeds. What you'll see most often here is
DH-dear husband
DW-dear wife
DD-dear daughter...etc.
I use BF-boyfriend often.
Anything with an IL ending is an in-law.