You did it Rosa - good for you!! You know you don't have to make a decision right this minute -there is no rush - is there? I mean you have a lot to think over. I've always been told if I don't know what to do, I should do nothing, as I would make a bad decision. I also know after I have a real good cry, then my brain starts working again.
You can put the name of his respiratory disease in the search box above- it may come up with information you haven't read yet. I am hoping for the best outcome for you and him.