Wild.
As an older guy and Father of 4, but all ended up in Divorce. Was from Cali, where Guys are traded up all the times. I agree with...
I'd not only let him leave; I'd pack for him.
Just my old lady's nickle's worth. Again.
Also as a man I have a different view of things than the women..
it looks like he is too young to really know what her wants and not knowing you or your age or what you do, I can not offert much except.
If you are not working or going to school, what do you plan to do? are you really able to care for the child or will Mom do it???
I am very pro-life but also know that what we don't need is another kid no one watches, care for or is in the system. Every woamn wants to be a mom but when it happenes, something happens to you. Either you become one hell of a Mother, the child just becomes another thing you have to do or you hate it. You will not really know til it is born and maybe not for a few years. Your life changes, your way of thinking does as well. You must really think past the joys of Motherhood or childbirth (ok, there is no joy to labour pains) to the kids future. It you can not raise the child right with love, support, rules and being able to afford the child then really you may want to think about adoption.
Alos you are use to your BF, he is there and has become part of your life or really a habit. Drop his *** very fast. If later in time he decides he is interested in being a Father.... Now this is iportant... Make him prove it and not just for a couple of days or months but for a year or so. You also are now a habit, or someone who is part of your life, love or not.... I know a bad way to say it. All us married people know what I am trying to say. So go through the motions while other live through them. I take my missues for granted, but then, she does me. The important thing is we love and know that we can not live without the other because we are truly friends, lovers and so forth... Something that takes alot of time to be....
Ok, long post short.
Think about your options, what is best for your child and then you... The child will always come first til it is 18, then set it free and see if you did a good job or not...
Good luck, my dear
Sheesh, did I just sound like a father. drat!!! sorry for that...
mmm, but I am...
laughs
As an older guy and Father of 4, but all ended up in Divorce. Was from Cali, where Guys are traded up all the times. I agree with...
I'd not only let him leave; I'd pack for him.
Just my old lady's nickle's worth. Again.
Also as a man I have a different view of things than the women..
it looks like he is too young to really know what her wants and not knowing you or your age or what you do, I can not offert much except.
If you are not working or going to school, what do you plan to do? are you really able to care for the child or will Mom do it???
I am very pro-life but also know that what we don't need is another kid no one watches, care for or is in the system. Every woamn wants to be a mom but when it happenes, something happens to you. Either you become one hell of a Mother, the child just becomes another thing you have to do or you hate it. You will not really know til it is born and maybe not for a few years. Your life changes, your way of thinking does as well. You must really think past the joys of Motherhood or childbirth (ok, there is no joy to labour pains) to the kids future. It you can not raise the child right with love, support, rules and being able to afford the child then really you may want to think about adoption.
Alos you are use to your BF, he is there and has become part of your life or really a habit. Drop his *** very fast. If later in time he decides he is interested in being a Father.... Now this is iportant... Make him prove it and not just for a couple of days or months but for a year or so. You also are now a habit, or someone who is part of your life, love or not.... I know a bad way to say it. All us married people know what I am trying to say. So go through the motions while other live through them. I take my missues for granted, but then, she does me. The important thing is we love and know that we can not live without the other because we are truly friends, lovers and so forth... Something that takes alot of time to be....
Ok, long post short.
Think about your options, what is best for your child and then you... The child will always come first til it is 18, then set it free and see if you did a good job or not...
Good luck, my dear
Sheesh, did I just sound like a father. drat!!! sorry for that...
mmm, but I am...
laughs
it really means alot to have your support, and i will definitely take you up on those morning sickness remedies. 
