Not sure what to think

[I have WHAT in my yard?]

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That's never it, sweetie. You did the right thing, you then moved on. You grew up. You struggled, you learned, you raised your little sister. YOU succeeded. YOU lived. Congratulations!

 

[ChickenAlgebra]

Owe 99 percent of that to DH I think. I was messed up for a number of years, he put up with ALOT. Jacinta spent 21 mths in rehab, but she's mostly together now.

 

[mom'sfolly]

You owe the donor nothing, and you owe those who condemn you no explanations.

PTSD can be treated. Your donor made the choice not to have it treated, made the choice to abuse his children and drugs.

You made the choice to raise yourself and your sister. Dump the toxic wasteland of your past and do what is right for you.

Congrats on escaping.

 

[ChickenAlgebra]

The other donor went on a binge and drove into a tree. She's back where she came from. The 'pastor' who knew what was going on 30+ years ago called to have me come home. Told him exactly what I thought of him, and that he drove me from Christianity.

 

[ChikeeMomma]

So sorry for what you have been through!

I don't think that you should go if you don't want to.

 

[BorderKelpie]

You should be proud of who you are now, especially since you didn't have the love and support you deserved growing up. Your DH is a great man who saw who you really are under all the BS you were buried under.
Kudos to you and don't worry about the stupid petty things others are saying. He is dead and gone - he doesn't care if you show up or not, sounds like he didn't care before he died either. His great loss.

 

[JulieNKC]