This past Friday the phone rang quite early and like many early calls this one wasn't good news. My father's youngest sister to called to inform us of the death of another sister. The death of this aunt wasn't unexpected, she was 89 and the last year she was in a nursing home living in her own little world that she rarely knew anyone.
While perhaps her passing was a blessing it is still difficult to lose a treasured family member. My last birthday was the first time in at least 40 years that she failed to call. She was the aunt that tried the hardest to keep all the extended family connected.
This aunt was also the one that Granny enjoyed spending time with so I knew that her death would be difficult. As Granny and I spoke about her passing and the feasibility of attending her funeral, she said she wouldn't want to attend, that she wanted to remember her as she was when we last visited.
The fact that she would be interred with her husband go tGranny thinking about my father and that she hadn't been to his grave since his cremains were placed in the memorial wall at the Kentucky Veterans Cemetery. My aunt's passing brought that fact to the fore and with it a great deal of sadness.
I decided that there was no good reason for him to be so far away. While he lies in a place of honor, it's still to far away. She should be able to spend a few moments near him remembering the years shared and not how difficult it will be to join them when she passes.
That got me to thinking, why not bring him back to Michigan? The state in which they raised a family and lived the majority of the married life has Veterans cemeteries, why not bring him to one of those. With a simple phone call I determined that disinterment wasn't going to be very difficult so I informed Granny of my idea.
She was absolutely thrilled with having him brought to a place she could easily visit. The Great Lakes National Cemetery is only 32 miles away instead of the 600 miles where he now lies. So I will soon be making the arrangements necessary to make this happen.
While my aunt's passing is quite sad and she will be missed greatly, it also has brought about something that is bringing Granny great solace.