Passing over .

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I have looked on this site and I can find lots of interesting things on Hatching and baby chicks.
But very little on end of life experiences.

When my Dog died I had loads of support from lots of folk all over. In the forum on the Dog site there was a special section entitled - "Over the rainbow bridge". It was comforting to share memories and pictures of the pet passed away. (I guess a deal of folk would put more emotional worth to a dog than a chicken but both have given me equal joy in my life).
However - here there is little mention of end of life and how one copes with those experieces of the loss of pet chickens?
Am I daft because my chickens are not dogs? Is there an over the rainbow for laying hens????? Do all good hens go to heaven too????

Well I Am going to tell you about my chicken I lost tonight. - Maybe others will be encouraged to share their experiences of end of life and what their pet chickens meant to them once they have passed away.

Drum-stick came to us with my 6 girls I was given as a gift from my husband as I was waiting results of cancer tests. They were supposed to be a distraction but became so much more than just a diversion! Drum-stick imediately stood out because she was smaller and scrawnier than the others. All the other girls were fancy duel perpose breeds but she was just a plain old PR. - all bones and very few feathers! So I called her drum-stick because there was probably the meat of a drum-stick on the entire bird!

Drum-stick had had scally leg mites and despite regular attacks with WD40 her legs never seemed to get any better. She had a thing for water and would ALWAYS put her feet into the drinking box. - I had a deep box of water and feed for two hens with x beaks. But Drummy treated it as her personal foot spa. - If we were in the yard she would be there under your feet. When we cleaned the coop she would be there first to inspect it! She was a wonderful little thing that loved to be petted and was always friendly except at food time. Then she would litterally climb onto the food tray and puff herself up to stop the others getting the feed and so she could get more than all the others! But she always remained a scrawney thing no- matter how much she ate.

However - a few days back she wouldn't come out of the coop and when I put her out she just stood feathered up under the coop and would not come out to feed. I had noticed she had not "emptied her crop". I put her into the shed and left her to rest but she didn't improve. Then I saw a thread on sour crop and I tried a garlic treatment recomended. She emptied the crop which was a start but then she wouldn't eat much. Steadily she just got weaker and nothing I tried worked to get her to eat properly again. Tonight I went to check on her and she was huddled over the water bowl. I lifted her up gently and there was a little life left in her. I wrapped her in an old towel I had used for her and brought her in doors. I cuddled her up close and gave her some sugar water from a syringe. There was very little sign of life but yet she hung on. We sat for a while and once she had gone to sleep we laid her on the sofa and kept checking. We saw her move and open her eyes. It was like she was saying goodbye as at that moment she left us. It was a very peaceful passing and she didn't suffer. She was like any other old person, she simply had enough of life and went to sleep. She brought a lot of happiness and good memories into my life. For that I will always be grateful. I will never forget her and I sincearly hope that somewhere out there - there is a chicken heaven - Though I am not entirley sure it is over a rainbow bridge????



Died today. March 25th 2012 she was 4 yrs old. Here she was huffing because Bertha had baby chicks.

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:hugs Sorry for your loss. She looks like she was a sweetie.

I do only see a few passing threads, though I suppose that's a good thing as it theoretically means that not many people have lost their pet chickens. I imagine there are the ones that don't put that much into a chicken, or are maybe too shy to.

My hens are beloved pets, however, and since my early days here on BYC, I have made it a point to post a memorial thread for all of them that I lose. It's just my way of gathering what I have left of them (pictures and memories) and expressing them where they will be accepted, not shunned, and kept safe for the foreseeable future.
 
I just sent you a message on another thread you explained about the loss of Drumstick... I am in floods of tears... I have read previous posts from you about losses...

I wish I could offer you some help in person... I too have loved and lost dogs and chickens... it is a devastating experience and my breath is wasted in explaining some of my feelings as so many people have no conception as to true loss of a beloved animal. one of my donkeys died a few weeks ago... i sat in a wet and muddy field with her.. waiting for the Vet to come and help her.. sadly there was no hope for her as is often the case with our wish for a miracle to help our loved ones....

Take care.....

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I just sent you a message on another thread you explained about the loss of Drumstick... I am in floods of tears... I have read previous posts from you about losses...

I wish I could offer you some help in person... I too have loved and lost dogs and chickens... it is a devastating experience and my breath is wasted in explaining some of my feelings as so many people have no conception as to true loss of a beloved animal. one of my donkeys died a few weeks ago... i sat in a wet and muddy field with her.. waiting for the Vet to come and help her.. sadly there was no hope for her as is often the case with our wish for a miracle to help our loved ones....

Take care.....

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Thank you for that. Yes we do sometimes ask for the imposible - When My mum died last February I didn't acept the truth untill I saw her in the funeral home. Some folk said I should not have gone to see her but I had to. I wanted it to be a big mistake and that she would just come home. But of course I had to accept in the end that she was really gone. When Murphy died in July I was indeed heart broken and although I saw the vet put him to sleep with my own eyes I still waited for someone to bring him home for months after - I just wanted someone to say it was a mistake and he woke up and was better. When Dorothy got sick in January this year I didn't expect her to die. Every year she got sick and when the sun came up she seemed to get better but this year she didn;t and now Drum-stick has joined her. Yes we do sadly sometimes have "wishful thinking" when it comes to death. It is hard for any of us to grasp! After all no one has ever come back to tell us what it is like to die - no human or animal. My sister has always had horses and so I feel much for you in a muddy field - and I can imagine the pain of not being able to do anything more than wait and hold onto your dear friend. I am pretty sure animals do know they are loved though. I know Murph knew that when he looked me in the eye the way he always did when he saw me cry - In my private moments at home he was my companion through many tears. So as I stood holding his paw and the tears were running he gave me a look that said it's ok mummy you can let me go now. I need to do this I need to go, it will be ok, you will be ok! I knew he cared how I felt in that last moment of his life. I knew he knew I cared for him too. That meant so much to me. I have been priviledged with both Dorothy and Drum-stick in that neither of them were dead when I found them at the end and so I could scoop them up in an old towel and cuddle them until the end. I felt I had done the best for them and they didn't die alone out in the cold. I am certain they knew they were loved. We are all so convinced there is a miricle of birth - but when it comes to death we don't see it in the same possitive light. I do believe in the miricle of death and am certain somehow there is not just nothing after but something so much better than the experience of life we have had here. Somewhere over the rainbow ? Perhaps?


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So soon I find I am writing again
Bertha went down a few days back and I tried very hard even putting her in the house beside the radiator with an inhaler and vapor rub.
Sadly I checked on her a while back and she had passed.
I am very upset tonight as I loved Bertha very very much indeed. She was a magnificet hen. A beautiful girl and a brillient mom.
I am devistated at the loss - so soon after the other two girls.

Here is Bertha as I like to remember her. In this she was herding her 18 week old chicks into the corner of the coop so she could sit on them!!!!
She won the longest broody contest on BYC!



She was such a beauty.

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Bit of sad news - You know we had our wee caroline in the dinning room as she was ill.
Well I went to feed her this morning and she had died in the night. I am a bit upset right now as she was one of my orriginal 6 birds.
- She would have been 6 yrs old this year.
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Bit of sad news - You know we had our wee caroline in the dinning room as she was ill.
Well I went to feed her this morning and she had died in the night. I am a bit upset right now as she was one of my orriginal 6 birds.
- She would have been 6 yrs old this year.
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Oes

I am SO sorry for your loss. Many hugs to you and I hope your heart heals soon.
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Thanks for the kind thoughts and sentiments.
I do miss her sooo. It is very strange not to be going in to check on her all the time! The house is empty without her in the dinning room.
Dh was telling everyone we met for weeks how crazy his wife was for "keeping a chicken in the dinning room" - It is amazing just how many folk said they would not put her out in this bad weather ! Still it is odd tonight to have my dinning room back
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This is Caroline the Black and white hen on the roost bar - this was way back in 2010 when she was overseeing Mables first attempt to roost. She is the Black and brown chick in the forground - sadly she died last winter. In fact I realise that All the birds in the photo have gone!



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