How do I know what breed to make the boy and girls? I want to do Silver Laced Australorps (cause I love the silver lacing of my Wyandottes and the awesomeness of my Black Australorps). Does it matter what breed the boy is? Example, if the cockerel is a Silver Laced Wyandotte and the hens are Black Autralorps would that give me different results than if the breeds were the other way around (Ausralorp cockerel and Silver Laced hens)?
Unless you are dealing with sexlinked genes, it makes no difference. If you aren't sure you can inquire on the genetics forums. Silver is sex-linked, and dominant, so a SL cock will give you faster results than a hen in this cross because a silver hen will produce only silver males, though the silver may not be visible because the black will likely cover it up (so you won't get red sexlinks from a SLW hen to a BA roo).
I don't understand the genetics of silver laced enough to advise you, but there are people on the forums who would understand exactly how to create an SL Australorp.