I am off to mediation in the next 15 minutes. Please, please pray that there will be no changes in custody, where he lives and his school. He will be going in to mediation before his father and I have to. Please pray that he won't say anything bad about me (yes, I am an imperfect mother), and that she will really understand him and his needs.
Prayers coming. Is your son old enough to understand what's really going on here? If so, I'd think he'd be hesitant to change schools, etc., and will say so in there. Good luck!