Pullet dependent on Rooster

[Zipsuns]

I have a cockrell and a pullet that were raised together. The pullet is a banam and much smaller than all my other hens. The two have integrated into the flock, but these two generally hang together. In fact, at night, if it's cold, the cockrell will wrap his wings around the banam. These two roost outside, while the older hens roost in the house. The little banam follows him around everywhere. As much as I like this cockrell, and think he's going to be a great rooster, I need to get rid of him. Am I crazy to be worried about the banam being depressed without him?

 

[sourland]

I'd be more worried about her being bullied by the larger hens.

 

[SourRoses]

Yup, the bantam is bonded to him and will probably be bullied when alone. Otherwise they would sleep in the coop. He's probably only staying outside because she isn't allowed in by the hens.
If you're not allowed a rooster, consider rehoming them together. She is unlikely to integrate well as the only Bantam. And you may have an easier time finding a home for a pair rather than a solitary roo.
Alternatively, you could make her her own coop and get more bantams.

IME, when chickens form a close bond, while they get over the loss outwardly after a while, they still don't seem to form a close bond with any other chicken again. Mild friendships, yes, but it's like they're more aloof permanently. Just my observations. Not to make you feel guilty or anything. I still separate when I really have to, but if at all possible I try to make sure friends stay together.
An interesting thing I've noticed is that those rare close friends, if temporarily separated, don't require any reintegration. It's just like "Where have you been?!". YMMV

 

[Zipsuns]

I'd be more worried about her being bullied by the larger hens.

I thought about that too.