Question of the Day - Saturday, July 12th, 2025

[ChickenRush]

Not love at first sight, but I generally like or dislike someone within five minutes of seeing them. My opinion may change, but I’m usually right the first time.

I have this voodoo too. It’s instant for me and I can tell from a picture. I’ve never been wrong.

 

[NotabitaiI]

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Hey it's either marry rich or get a job
I've gotta eat somehow

 

[tripletfeb]

No.
I think that feeling can be chalked up to attraction without substance, you don't know someone's character enough to love them at first sight.

I also don't believe in dating or marrying for love tho so maybe I'm just callous.

Being in love is the only good reason to get married

 

[tripletfeb]

No, I don't believe in love at first sight. Love is much more than looks. I believe in being attracted to someone at first sight, and if you're lucky, it turns into love. But true love is a deep and complex thing

 

[tripletfeb]

No.

No.
I think that feeling can be chalked up to attraction without substance, you don't know someone's character enough to love them at first sight.

I also don't believe in dating or marrying for love tho so maybe I'm just callous.

What the hell is going on here? Do you have two accts?

 

[NotabitaiI]

What the hell is going on here? Do you have two accts?

I'm not the same as nabi

 

[tripletfeb]

I'm not the same as nabi

 

[NotabitaiI]

Being in love is the only good reason to get married

No, love goes away, eventually you look across the table at the person you used to love and just gag, but if you married because it was logical, your fundamentals lined up, you shared a faith, had similar goals in life, and you were compatible temperamentally then you can get through most stuff and still like each other in the end.
Dgmw I wouldn't marry someone I didn't love, but I also wouldn't get married for love because love is sooooo blind and the most fickle of all feelings.

 

[Sally PB]

It was love at first sight with me for Blue Australorps.

 

[tripletfeb]

No, love goes away, eventually you look across the table at the person you used to love and just gag, but if you married because it was logical, your fundamentals lined up, you shared a faith, had similar goals in life, and you were compatible temperamentally then you can get through most stuff and still like each other in the end.
Dgmw I wouldn't marry someone I didn't love, but I also wouldn't get married for love because love is sooooo blind and the most fickle of all feelings.

Not true. I sure hope no one listens to this "advice" because it is terrible