Question of the Day - Saturday, July 12th, 2025

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McChooky said:
You two are terrible lol
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No he's pretty mild I'm the one who makes kids cry
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NotabitaiI said:
Many divorced people in my life would have died for their spouse, even after divorce. Love is complicated like that.

Nobody should marry for those reasons, but in my own personal life many people who married for love and not for solid reasons always get divorced the minute ish hits the fan, and even if they do stay together they're like sodium and H20, hate to be around em.

Anyways divorce stats say a lot more about lost fluffy feels and irreconcilable differences than they do "compatible but not in love"

"The number one reason for divorce is often cited as a lack of commitment, with many couples experiencing emotional withdrawal and difficulty in resolving conflicts. Other significant factors include infidelity and financial disagreements."

My point is just that if you marry for love alone when that feeling is gone so is the desire to be in that relationship.

Good for them, i think that should be everyone's goal.
Also, as I stated I wouldn't marry someone I didn't love. Love isn't bad or anything it's just not reliable or even a good reason to marry considering you can love someone who is really bad for you.

I am not here to give anyone advice on anything😂
I just stated my observations and beliefs, I might not be a politician but I still vote🙃
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You are still a child, in so many ways. And I'm done with this conversation. You keep being you and I wish you well. I'll keep being me, married for love and extremely happy
 
I believe it can happen. Agape love is unconditional.

I met my now and only husband when we were 27. From the first, I knew he was kind, thoughtful, strong and handsome, with a sense of humor. 30 hours later, we had our First date. It was on a motorcycle and I did not know where to place my hands. I was nervous. At that time in my life, I knew the ropes, the cons, the games, I was (and still am) a strong woman...but I was nervous. Hands on his waist? Would that seem forward to him? Hands on his shoulders, uncomfortable and not as easy to balance.

We married in '88 and I love him more today than then. It has grown, deepened, has blossomed then deepened even more and blossomed again. (we are perennials not annuals :love)

After God, he is my rock. We both agreed, a few years after our marriage, that we love God first, then each other.

Love at first sight is only visual but if people are working for a lifetime agape love...it can and does happen.
 

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