Question of the Day - Saturday, July 12th, 2025

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NotabitaiI said:
I would change it if it bothered the real Nabi

Yes, but arguments are not bad. That's just always been my learning style, from a very young age, I'm aware most people don't like it but I'm not mean spirited and the point is not to hurt anyone's feelings.

Maybe I'm tone deaf or something because none of my long rambles were meant to be full of tude. The short ones, yes, but I don't take myself seriously in the slightest so maybe it doesn't read quite how I mean it🤔
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You are ok.
 
NotabitaiI said:
No.
I think that feeling can be chalked up to attraction without substance, you don't know someone's character enough to love them at first sight.

I also don't believe in dating or marrying for love tho so maybe I'm just callous.
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notabitail said:
No, you're not callous.
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Curious- do you mean marrying someone you don’t love, as long as they’re a decent person and you get along?
Or not marrying for love without them also being a decent person you get along with? 🧐
 
NotabitaiI said:
No, love goes away, eventually you look across the table at the person you used to love and just gag, but if you married because it was logical, your fundamentals lined up, you shared a faith, had similar goals in life, and you were compatible temperamentally then you can get through most stuff and still like each other in the end.
Dgmw I wouldn't marry someone I didn't love, but I also wouldn't get married for love because love is sooooo blind and the most fickle of all feelings.
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Read C. S. Lewis!
 
CombNWattles said:
Curious- do you mean marrying someone you don’t love, as long as they’re a decent person and you get along?
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Absolutely not. I could see how this might work out but I personally couldn't marry someone I didn't love.
CombNWattles said:
Or not marrying for love without them also being a decent person you get along with? 🧐
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Yeah, kinda👍🏻
 

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