Hello there! First, I'm sorry for your dad's and your losses. Hard stuff. Next, the Fort Knox method is the way to go. Good advice from the experts. What I may be able to add is about dealing with an aging parent who is having a hard time with their new reality.
With my mom (nothing involving chickens--she thinks I'm weird)-- the best thing is to talk to her about the old days, then talk about good times/things, then work your way into questions that elicit the answers you want. Obviously you know your dad, I'm just offering an idea learned the hard way. Best of luck.
With my mom (nothing involving chickens--she thinks I'm weird)-- the best thing is to talk to her about the old days, then talk about good times/things, then work your way into questions that elicit the answers you want. Obviously you know your dad, I'm just offering an idea learned the hard way. Best of luck.