Our Wal-Mart team is participating in the Relay For Life walk. I am walking for my mom. A person, one of our managers, asked me to come to the survivor dinner, but I don't feel as though I should go. The mere thought of going seems awful to me. The person who invited me is a survivor herself. I gave her a few names of some co-workers who also survived, but I doubt they'd go with her. Is it awful of me to turn down the invitation? Did I commit an awful faux pas?