That's funny, sred, my very first "hands on" experience with opossums was when I was about 12 or so. We had two alone babies, just old enough to eat on their own, show up in our yard. I named them Percival and Penelope.
They never were terribly tame, but did get used to me and even let me treat them for fleas.
Diamond seems sad, a bit lost, alone. I know she will. Poor girl. She has never known a time without him.
Thanks for asking all the questions, guys. I will try to make sure I answer all of them.
I LOVE sharing about them.....it helps people see that they aren't just nasty, chicken killing monsters with a mouth full of teeth.
First, when they are born they are helpless and crawl to the pouch where they stay until they have fur and their eyes open. They then explore but go back to the pouch for milk, safety, warmth. Yes, there can be babies inside the pouch. Topaz was in his mom's pouch nursing. The other babies were scattered all over the road. If I see a dead opossum I stop, see if it is female, and if so I check the pouch. Which can be GROSS inside so you can't say you weren't forewarned!!! LOL Rubber gloves come in VERY handy!!!
I don't know if they would eat the chickens if they were released back to the wild (I am sure they would) but these guys wouldn't dream of it. Food comes on a plate, you know.
My mother has a handicapped chicken (a TINY handicapped chicken) that lives with her opossum and she doesn't pay any attention to her......she would rather go talk to the bunny so she just ignores her.
These all live/d in the house. Not caged. They are paper and outdoor potty trained. They won't come when called but tend to stay VERY close by. They eat almost anything and need a good variety of vegetables, meat, grains.
They are extremely clean animals. They hate to be dirty and try to stay as clean as they can. All these are really good about baths....seem to love them in fact. Oh, and they are SOFT!!!! I love to snuggle their hair. Their ears are so sweet, almost feel like little thin pieces of rubber or plastic. Their little hands are nothing short of perfect....oh, and they not only have a prehensile tail, they have an opposable thumb!!! (on their back foot) Now how cool is THAT?????
I am sure I am forgetting some of the important stuff......but maybe, it will help someone look at one different.
Oh, and as for husbands killing their wives......LOL my poor hubby learned a long time ago stressing over animals was totally pointless unless he is stressing over how to help them!!! Thankfully he loves them as much as I do.
He had no clue what he was getting into when he married me!!!