I'm trying to think back but I think he was okay with her before the egg eating isolation. Until recently he seemed only interested in mounting the little brown bantam that was his favourite. I did once or twice see him mount one of the new RI's but I haven't seen him mount either Joan or Jessie (the two originals that are 3 yo). However, the bantams are skittish little birds and I can't touch them unless I get them at night when they are on the roost and sleepy. Once reached in to collect eggs and didn't see the little brown girl in there and she came out shrieking like a banshee. He was in the coop so fast and giving me the stink eye but didn't do anything. However, same little hen is getting a bit broody the last week and I had to kick her out of the nest a couple of times. She muttered to herself a little but didn't make a huge deal. When I tried picking up one of the new RI's they start off shrieking
and he's right there at my feet looking up and giving me the eye but then they settle and get quiet and then he seems to relax. So clearly he's protective of his girls. The two instances where he slapped my hand happened within the last two weeks and I got a little worried it might be a sign of something because I've read stories where nice roosters turned nasty when they matured. I want to nip this in the bud and do the right thing because I love this guy. He's very handsome and he is okay with me picking him up. When I saw him at the breeder I walked around with him in my arms while I talked to the breeder for almost an hour without him even squirming. But I will confess that with this cold wintry weather I haven't picked him up much or hang out in the run. I'm kind of in, get the food and water, clean coop and get out.Should I try to maybe spend more attention on him? Maybe he feels I'm ignoring him and paying too much attention to the girls so he's feeling jealous/neglected? Jessie is the only one I 'pet' because Joan has never liked being handled and the other girls are still new to me and skittish so it's hard to even catch them to pick one up. Jessie comes up to me all the time for attention. Maybe he doesn't like her doing that.
Thanks for the lesson in semantics. I do want to learn all this stuff and I've been trying to read up on things online but have a lot on my plate these days so time to read is short. So any help or suggestions is definitely welcome. I'm still laughing at myself having got the whole 'petting' thing all wrong.

Will have to tell my husband so he can have a good laugh too. Once the weather is good I'll be letting them out of the run to roam a bit and we'll see just how that goes. The run is nice and all, I even have a compost corner for kitchen scraps and an evergreen branch to pick at and hide under (still need to put together a nice dust bath). I even treat with dried mealworms occasionally (yes, they're spoiled and my eggs cost a fortune). But I'm sure they would be happier when they can get fresh vegetation and bugs. At the very least he'll keep them together vs having some wander off alone to the edge of the woods which happened in the past. I've been considering the possibility of a portable fence or building a chicken tractor if I have to. Fingers crossed.