so i was bringing my chickens inside because it was night and my rooster started pecking at everyone inside in the dark. He pecked me when i tried to stop him from moving to the others so i got really frustrated and kind of shoved him roughly. i feel super guilty about this. then he went on to start aggressively pecking the little baby so I got angry and grabbed him roughly but i cant clearly remember what i did. i kind of slapped him moreof a firm irritated kind of hard pat but i feel super guilty about it and he wasnt hurt or anything but can we do this? i see people booting roosters across the yard but he wasnt spurring anyone or drawing blood, just pecking and i sort of did it in a split second because i was really annoyed
Don't feel guilty is the first step.
I've swiped roosters when they were in the air attacking hard enough to propel them backwards a few yards. I don't grab them in anger, but sure, I'll smack a rooster intent on doing me harm.
But, the secret is not to lose ones cool and not react in anger.
I respect the right of any creature to attack me if it feels under threat. I'll even cut cockerels some slack when it comes to adolescent behaviour, which includes trying to fight anything they think they might beat. They do learn, usually from a senior rooster, or even a senior hen that they've ****** up big time by pissing off Bucket Boy (me).
I'll swat them as well.
What I don't do which I have no doubt I'll read about later in this thread is kill them, try to dominate them, or otherwise mistreat them.
I don't know how to say this because the word I'll use has slightly different meanings relative to age and culture.
Roosters demand respect. It doesn't matter much whether one thinks they deserve it, or not.
Years of watching free range roosters led me to have enormous respect for them. Most work hard for their hens. Many die trying to protect their hens. I've found them to be intelligent and trainable.
The simple truth is many chicken keepers are just not interested in putting in the work, frustration and inconvenience of coming to a working relationship with a rooster.
so i was bringing my chickens inside because it was night and my rooster started pecking at everyone inside in the dark.
This is where you went wrong. The slap is fine but this isn't. It's part of the roosters job to lead his hens to roost. Some roosters are strangely fussy about who enters the coop and in which order; as are some senior hens.
You don't mention a light so I assume it is dark in the coop. The rooster was probably trying to peck your hand in the dark. If I stick my hand in a dark coop of just hens fumbling around, I'll get pecked.
Relax

and next time you stick your hand in a drak coop trying to interfere in the roosters business, wear gloves and eye protection
