Our tom is a bit anxious because his ladies are sitting on eggs. He's been getting following us around and getting frisky with my husband's shoes. Really we can see him thinking about hoping on just about anything he can but he likes my husband's boots. We, for some reason, rubbed his head one day. he seems to like it. Why? He has been getting really frisky so I am beginning to think the head rubbing gets him excited. What is going on here? Does he like it or are we instigating a mating session?