Maybe I don't have it so bad!
When do you add younger silkies to older ones? And, when do you integrate regular chicks (like RIR) with your LF hens?
Here is what I do when I want to integrate and it works good for me.
If they are roughly the same size, I put them in the same pen together and separate the two flocks so they can see each other, but not get to each other. I do this for a while, but do not have a set time. I just watch them to see when they are ready. When I feel like they are adjusting to each other, I will move the divider over some so chickens can wander back and forth and visit, but still get away from each other. When everyone seems to be used to each other and behaving nicely, I take the divider out.
If the chicks are younger than the first flock, I still use the divider and do the same thing. When I move the divider out a bit, I make sure only the younger, smaller guys can get around the divider and they go out and visit with the older ones, but the older chickens CANNOT get into the younger chickens' side. After awhile of the little ones coming into their area, the big guys are fine with it.
I have only done this with juveniles. My juvies are now one flock and they are maturing so I won't add any more birds to that flock until my little ones are closer to maturity as the older ones will try to mate the younger ones and hurt them....at least this is my experience. I don't know about everyone else.
My RIRs will not get integrated until the young ones are the same size as the Lucys. The Lucys are sweet and all, but I do believe they will attack something younger. I just would not trust those guys. Silkies have a way different personality.
That being said, I may not have to integrate the Lucys as I am giving my in-laws some hens and I do not think I am going to put a new roo in with my established roo. We just put down one aggressive roo that took out AJ's eye and I don't want AJ to have to go through anything like that again. I am thinking about taking the roos to the processing plant and see how I like that. I don't think I am as brave as you to process them at home....we will see.
Now, just to throw something else in the mix.....I just put two flocks of babies together yesterday in the barn. They are about a month apart. No one was in this pen before and I put everyone in it yesterday and they didn't care a bit. It was too overwhelming being in a big new scary place and then too much fun to scratch around in the bedding. They are my RIR chicks, bantam Ameraucanas and silkies. The Reds have been living with the Ameraucanas and silkies and are very used to being with them. I made sure there is enough food and water in different areas so no one will be too scared to get to the food/water containers and am just watching them closely. There is also a roost there as most everyone in that pen likes to roost so that also is keeping everyone entertained. So sometimes moving everyone to a new pen where there is no territory established can help. You wouldn't have to keep them in that new pen for long, just so they don't care about each other. You might even try it in an outdoor pen during the day.....start them in the morning and see how they do and then put them up together early that night and watch them and then get up early the next morning to make sure they don't start fighting as soon as the sun comes up.
As you can see, there are a lot of ways to do it. I have never had a problem putting any of the babies together yet.
Also, to distract them, you can throw out some yummy treats...anything that you have leftovers of that you think they might like. I always have lots of eggs from the Lucys so I put scrambled eggs out and then they are busy running after the food to care who is around there too.
Wwweeehhhh...I hope I didn't wear you out with that post!
How are your Trader Joe babies doing? How is Buffy taking to motherhood today