bucks are bad bombing, unless you have a need for one. you don't. Honestly, I agree that if your goat doesn't think he's a goat, then don't get him a goat. Also, if you truly think that your guy will not be truly happy without a goat friend-it's not that hard to wether a buckling. Showing a buck in 4-H is not fun. Especially a buck with horns.
And ksacres, I much prefer my does to my wether. Although, this may have to do with the fact that they never advertise that they're in heat. GRR. Only when a buck is around can I tell. But they never do the whole bad-tempered whining thing.