ok i want to go to some shows but they are so far away from me. were can i find out about shows and how can i possablly get some shows closer to were i am located at?
The Poultry Press lists all upcoming shows. That's the most reliable place.
At one time, Metzer was listing upcoming shows on their blog. I don't know if they still are.
A really good place to look is to join the "Where am I, where are you?" forum for your own state. As soon as there is a show, people will start to talk about going.
Exhibition poultry dot net is a down loadable newsletter that contains information about upcoming shows. I always virus scan it before I open it, but there has never been any trouble from it, nor any spam.