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Love this statement, if more folks followed this attitude there wouldn't be a need for over flowing animal rescues and humane societies. Animals are not disposable! Just wish more folks took it that seriously!
Me too. They are not a whim or something to take on simply on impulse. That's why I sort of cringe every time someone says "chicken math" and laughs about it. I never add to my flock in a light, impulsive way...there has to be room, a need, or some kind of plan for each new member and I often will not allow myself to add any new chickens until I have culled what I have. They are not potato chips that one can stack in a can and enjoy as you see fit, but living creatures that need a quality life, adequate space and a chance to live without overcrowding, bullying, picking, poor coop and run environments, etc.
The way some folks hoard chickens, hatch chicks, swap chickens at events, or auctions, and sell chicks would be called a puppy mill if it were dogs but I don't think they have coined a label for what people are doing with chickens just yet....but it's coming. For now they call it chicken math.
Yes they do, and the nieces and Nephews and the cousins and the friends kids...lol.. Since I had to let my business go and MIL went into an assisted living home I have found my life slow way down... I don't know about most of you, but in my faith we are raised to be mothers and wives, once the kids grew up and I didn't have them here anymore I took on a business, once that went away I took on my MIL, once she got where she needed to be I just felt lost, this takes up my time and I get to see something grow, I am in charge again of taking care of something... Its hard to explain but it takes that empty space and certainly fills it and I love sharing it with the little ones, to see the wonder on their face when we candle an egg and they can see the baby, to watch an egg hatch...its amazing..
I know exactly what you are talking about and I agree! Women are mothers and wives and that's their job in most cases. Once the kids are grown and there are no elderly left to care for, it leaves a gap. Often grandkids are needing care and that fills the gap and the woman feels needed and useful once again. If I ever find a gap in my life for no one to care for, I think I will be getting foster kids if possible. There is always someone out there needing love, care and guidance and us old moms are not obsolete just yet, are we?