I lost my job Dec 2006 and have not found anything that paid like my old job. I took early retirement and work as a substitute teacher. Downsize as much as you can and you will be OK Less really is more, I help at missions and could not be happier with my life but when I lost my job I was down for a long time until I changed my thinking and my life is better than when I was making 5 times the pay. Good luck to you, I noticed you are in NC and this state is difficult to find work that pays.