Coyote will always be around to do what she does here in this thread. The powers that be are gonna keep her around for that purpose. Because she rocks at it.
too all.
So....talk about.....CANCER SUPPORT THREAD !!
- Thread starter Lunachick
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Burtis..
Thats all i know to do right now..
I hope you know you are in my thoughts a LOT...
You are one heck of a special man...
Burtis..
Thats all i know to do right now..
I hope you know you are in my thoughts a LOT...
You are one heck of a special man...
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Yep... x a zillion.
I dont post on here to often, because i never know what to say.. (i'mma big dorkus)
But Mizz Cindi knows how i feel about her..
Yep... x a zillion.
I dont post on here to often, because i never know what to say.. (i'mma big dorkus)
But Mizz Cindi knows how i feel about her..
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Yep... x a zillion.
I dont post on here to often, because i never know what to say.. (i'mma big dorkus)
But Mizz Cindi knows how i feel about her..
No one can ever be a dorkus when wishing people well!
Yep... x a zillion.
I dont post on here to often, because i never know what to say.. (i'mma big dorkus)
But Mizz Cindi knows how i feel about her..
No one can ever be a dorkus when wishing people well!
Quote:
AMEN!! KEEP ON TRUCKING!
Cindy
AMEN!! KEEP ON TRUCKING!
Cindy
Quote:
Yep... x a zillion.
I dont post on here to often, because i never know what to say.. (i'mma big dorkus)
But Mizz Cindi knows how i feel about her..
Wendy we non-sufferers can be honest here, like the people who have been afflicted have been. I believe that just knowing what they go through, seeing it or not, is enough for us to be able to support them. If you don't know what to say, say THAT! Hug them when they need it, post
when happiness happens. Just be YOU!
Yep... x a zillion.
I dont post on here to often, because i never know what to say.. (i'mma big dorkus)
But Mizz Cindi knows how i feel about her..
Wendy we non-sufferers can be honest here, like the people who have been afflicted have been. I believe that just knowing what they go through, seeing it or not, is enough for us to be able to support them. If you don't know what to say, say THAT! Hug them when they need it, post
Quote:
Yep... x a zillion.
I dont post on here to often, because i never know what to say.. (i'mma big dorkus)
But Mizz Cindi knows how i feel about her..
Wendy we non-sufferers can be honest here, like the people who have been afflicted have been. I believe that just knowing what they go through, seeing it or not, is enough for us to be able to support them. If you don't know what to say, say THAT! Hug them when they need it, post
when happiness happens. Just be YOU!
OK confession time. I have been lurking here a while. Eventhough I have been through it with family I still never know what to say. See some people are very sensitive and others are very open. Mom and Dad never made it past denial so we never got to talk about much.
But I have learned to and will openly show what mom and dad never did.
Yep... x a zillion.
I dont post on here to often, because i never know what to say.. (i'mma big dorkus)
But Mizz Cindi knows how i feel about her..
Wendy we non-sufferers can be honest here, like the people who have been afflicted have been. I believe that just knowing what they go through, seeing it or not, is enough for us to be able to support them. If you don't know what to say, say THAT! Hug them when they need it, post
OK confession time. I have been lurking here a while. Eventhough I have been through it with family I still never know what to say. See some people are very sensitive and others are very open. Mom and Dad never made it past denial so we never got to talk about much.
But I have learned to and will openly show what mom and dad never did.
Chicken Rustler, I think you learned the most important lesson that can be learned in life.
It is so important to say the words of love, and pride, and respect that we feel for people. We need to speak our gratitude and give our apologies,... those words make some people so uncomfortable they turn on their heals and walk away instead of letting themselves feel the least bit vulnerable.
I have never understood why saying kind words are so painful for some people, and violent or angry words flow so easily.
A few years ago someone mentioned the saying" you can either be a good example or a horrible warning"
I realized that I learned my lessons by horrible warnings.
A kind word never killed anyone.
(Of course, I am still waiting... if they cough one up and keel over, I will retract that statement
)
It doesn't have to be anything more than a
on a computer screen to let people know that you are thinking about them.
Life gets complicated, but as you have found out, it doesn't take much to brighten someones day.
It is so important to say the words of love, and pride, and respect that we feel for people. We need to speak our gratitude and give our apologies,... those words make some people so uncomfortable they turn on their heals and walk away instead of letting themselves feel the least bit vulnerable.
I have never understood why saying kind words are so painful for some people, and violent or angry words flow so easily.
A few years ago someone mentioned the saying" you can either be a good example or a horrible warning"
I realized that I learned my lessons by horrible warnings.
A kind word never killed anyone.
(Of course, I am still waiting... if they cough one up and keel over, I will retract that statement
It doesn't have to be anything more than a
Life gets complicated, but as you have found out, it doesn't take much to brighten someones day.
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Thanks See the only time mom told me she loved me was the last time I saw her, the day before she passed. And dad never said it. It has been a challenge for me and I still struggle with will people take it wrong when I say to someone "I love you" or just to give a hug.
Thanks See the only time mom told me she loved me was the last time I saw her, the day before she passed. And dad never said it. It has been a challenge for me and I still struggle with will people take it wrong when I say to someone "I love you" or just to give a hug.
I can not look at my husband and son with out WANTING to let them know how important they are to me.
I guess because not only did my family not want to say it, they did not want to hear it either.
I can not comprehend the pain it always caused them to hear me tell them that I loved them.
I guess it put them on the spot, and that made them feel uncomfortable.
I have been told by members on this thread that their family's just do not want to talk about the cancer, or the fear, or the worry, or the treatments.
That is why were are here. We are their BYC family. We need family, they need us. it all works out.
Welcome to the thread Chicken rustler, you tipped your hat as a caring person, and now you are stuck here.
I guess because not only did my family not want to say it, they did not want to hear it either.
I can not comprehend the pain it always caused them to hear me tell them that I loved them.
I guess it put them on the spot, and that made them feel uncomfortable.
I have been told by members on this thread that their family's just do not want to talk about the cancer, or the fear, or the worry, or the treatments.
That is why were are here. We are their BYC family. We need family, they need us. it all works out.
Welcome to the thread Chicken rustler, you tipped your hat as a caring person, and now you are stuck here.
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