Most ducks really don't like to be held, more than likely being prey they aren't sure what may be getting ready to happen. You might try just letting them be close but not in your lap for a while giving them some tasty treats like dried meal worms or thawed peas. The best way to a ducks heart whether Pekin or Mallard is through it's tummy.I have a question: My Pekins ducklings are very skittish and scared when I put them on my lap. Is there a way to calm them and help them get used to you?